I happened to scan around and found your post, my H and I have a similar situation, we are fairly comfortable with the $$$. My H 55 no children, we help raised 2 nieces G15 and G13, they are just at the age testing their wings, want to fly, want to be independent from us. My H lost his footage, and we adopted another family with G16, B14 then he got close to them, too close, I went crazy asked them to move out then UH! a big ball of fire on me, the family hated me, my H accusing me for accusing him doing good deeds to my relatives!! it's such a mess!! Then just few weeks ago I just learned that my H deeply in love with OW, wants a D, he sets it for the latest after Xmas.
Why, he wants a D when that will kill us all financially, because I do not agree the D (till death do us part). He will hire an expensive L. I have to lay down to die and my L will take over... then the $$$ will roll from one L to the other L. I just don't get it. My B used to say to me: do you know what your problem is? you two have everything so you become ...rotten!.. does it sound right?
Frustrating, hurt, pain,
I will try to search your posts more I may find something that I need to know. I am so new on this board. I need to learn a lot. I read DB, would not help, my H is so adament about moving out: the lastest after Xmas, adament file for D, adament want to make the OW's life beautiful, adament he does not love me any more, adament to get an expensive L to get his share of the properties...
I need advice if anyone of you could share some information to help me ease the pain so I will not kill myseft! Tidalwave
