Thank you for posting this chapter on the internet. When it happens to you, nothing makes any sense.

For me, reading what Michele had to say about this helped me to formulate a plan. It helped me to see what was going on. It helped me to know I needed patience.

What helped me most was my personal phone consultation, and the input from the MLC forum assuring me that my H was in MLC. That was last year. This year life is good and we are "in love" again.

I do honestly credit Michele and her principles for saving my marriage. I am not alone. I have seen many people able to turn their relationships around, on this board, over the past year.