Quote: h is working overload lately and it's starting to drive me mad...have to keep reminding myself that it's also driving him mad too...just that he is not as inclined to say so as often but when he does complain I thank him for doing so
That is PERFECT! Remind him gently that it's OK (and safe) to complain about life's stresses. Doesn't come natural to him but with practice it will become second nature. Again, it's a guy thing...protector/provider/nonwhiner and all that.
