understanding the waw

[sage]

ok so here I did my complaining and let of my anger and resentment at the fact that h didn't call and the fact that he's working so much...

well the phone rang and I reluctantly answered...

h appologized for not calling earlier...his day was apparently hellish...

h is on his way to his appointment...

asked me to bear with him for the next few weeks...

said that he knows it's hard...

said that he will do his best to make sure I get some qt with him each week...friday night we are going out..

some of the things he said made me want to cry...

so then I guess it is best for me to keep my mouth shut and appreciate the fact that h works hard..and yes he works hard for me and the kids...and yes he does miss out by working so much but he is getting better at pushing himself the extra 1/2 at night to spend with the kids..and even last night despite the fact that after putting son to bed I'm sure he would have loved nothing more than to just go straight to bed...he made the left turn and came back down to sit with me for 15 min...and even shared a goofy incident that happend to him during the day...

LL -- This is good stuff! When I was reading your first post on H's working so much I was thinking "180" -- what if LL goes out of her way to tell h how much she appreciates his drive and commitment, etc.

BUT...seems like h himself has tackled DB'ing and is doing a 180 himself -- by letting you know that he's not feeling good about this either, asking you for support, etc.

I'd say -- rant away on the boards! It seems to bring about the solution gods!

Sage

PS -- So where's the date gonna be on Friday???