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How's things?...sounds like you are having good days and bad days, but your H is still there. Sounds a lot like a functioning M. Perhaps some maintenance required but you're doing that. My guess is that things will work out in the end.


howdy jim,

nice to hear from ya!!
ya it is a fantasy...but a better one would be to go there for the open house and just as she's giving a tour of the pool area to accidentally push her in...oooops!! but then as h said many months ago..she's in her own hell...(self inflicted!! )

yes, I have good days and bad...sometimes I know the route of the bad days and other times it's just a bad day.

h is working overload lately and it's starting to drive me mad...have to keep reminding myself that it's also driving him mad too...just that he is not as inclined to say so as often but when he does complain I thank him for doing so...I'd rather hear him piss and moan about being tired and working too much than have him keep those thoughts to himself leaving me to think he's happy to be away from me.

LL