I think you know what you need to do. You just have to decide to do it.
But don't give OW the power over your life that she has. She is dirt and isn't worth your time. She is obviously not a good person and you are.
I can only imagine how you felt with your discovery. It must have hurt like hell.
Do what is best to make LL happy. I just made that decision yesterday. I will be happy and you should be too.
Maybe our happiness isn't the way we want it right now. But I was unhappy in my previous marriage and I was a WAW. I thought I had found the King of the World with this H. I'm finding I was wrong. Maybe the best is yet to come.
