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Very few people would have the stamina and the courage that you have demonstrated by fighting for your M in the face of such insensitive and cruel behavior from your H.


and here I will be the pathetic walk over me and I'll still stick up for you sap of a woman in love with her man...

h is not intentionally cruel he is apparently just a man who doesn't get it.

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Please do not allow his emotional handicap pull you down - remember his inability to appreciate you is his problem not yours.


and then here I'll go saying but gee what if it's me...what if he's doing and saying everything right and IS showing me that he appreciates me but I am too emotionally handicapped to recognize it???

LL