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LL, you poor woman. You have said so many comforting things to me, I ache when I hear such pain from you. You must stop referring to yourself in the third person!! You are real and you are hurting. I have seen great strength in you, great compassion in you, great honesty in you, and great kindness in you. Get rid of the referring to yourself in the third person and say to yourself:



thank you for the kind kind words sbh...I refer to myself in the third person becuase if I didn't I'd never make it through a post..it's my way of displacing my feelings..stepping away from them...realizing them and placing them somewhere else. I know my pain is very real...and that I am very real...it's just easier that way.

LL