I thought you did fabulous with your H. I am proud of you. I love how you told him of your stand and why. It was brilliant.
Your H sounds so much like mine, it scared me. It is so mind blowing how evil they are. Set good boundaries and DON'T LET HIM BULLY YOU.
I can relate to the shaking and fear. It is horrible to watch your life crumble, but I guarantee you...... YOU WILL DO WELL. I can feel your strength. Keep keeping on...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11