Cat, sorry to hear your recent news. Stay calm, look after you, NO R talk at all! No blaming, no impulsive responses to his words, and as OT said DON'T agree to anything without your lawyer in on it. It's a tough go, I just went through it. What I tried to focus on was keeping things civil so that we can raise our children together as best we can. Together or apart you will always be parents and kids do best when separated parents get along. Keep us updated. You're on my prayer list.
