I do understand what you are saying but like in my sit. she says she doesn't know if she will ever be ready for a R. we have been together alot lately and I know that should be enough but she will still say things like we are D so I can do what I want.This might offend some of the women here but I think in alot of instances the better you treat a woman the less satisfied in the R they are and maybe its because they don't have to work at it. It may well be the same for men.My XW even told me one time that maybe it was because I gave her everything she wanted and never told her no. I just told her that was the way a man was supposed to treat a woman he loved.LL you are fine,dig deep and find your happiness and the rest will follow. I guess you are feeling alot of what my XW is and I wish I understood it.
