Questioning the concept of MLC and "Standing"

[ACJ]

The real way to look at this is what happens if you do nothing, ACJ.

I'm not doing nothing I am just doing things in my timescale and not his and he doesn't like it.

You still have to take care of business.

I know. I need to get this done for me but at the moment I am managing VERY well financially and H isn't. Guess who he wants to pull down with him. Any move towards D (whether it be partial or full) is a financial suicide for us both right now and that's why I'm finding this so hard.

You can't blame yourself for the actions of another

I quit the blame game a long time ago. All I was pointing out is that it doesn't make it go away. It is still there in the cold light of day and I am honestly struggling with that.