Hi Nic, Yes we both have a L. However the new job he took recently pays £12k a year less and OW is about to loose her job at the end of the month as it was only a 1yr maternity cover post. They are feeling the pinch VERY MUCH. As it costs about £10 each time for the L to send a letter I can only imagine that he thought this way would be cheaper! His contributions towards the children are also getting less and less again. I've said nothing, this will all come out in court when we finally get there.
He is frustrated b/c it is me who is stalling things. I am frustrated b/c I feel like i am being forced to do something I want no part of.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15