If you have the ability to just look forward, piecing is a breeze. You must have the ability to let it go and move forward.
Like Keith Richards said... "Sometimes you gotta sit down and scrape the [censored] right off your shoes."
W and I had an amazing day yesterday. Spent time together, but also gave each other a bit of space.
Had a nice lunch, did a little shopping, played tennis and ordered in sushi and watched a movie.
I am now home permanently.
The divorce is busted .... end of story.
I wish everyone all the best. If you truly want to save your marriage and you have that special chemistry with your spouse, follow the DB tips and you will be ok.
It's all about getting a life, not whining, working on yourself and then having your spouse fall in love with the new you.
I personally believe that separation is very healthy in these situations. I really do.
You need to give each other space so the wounds can heal.
