I know it's hard when you feel you are giving all the time and getting nothing back. The Vegas thing would have really stuck in my throat.
Does he get really stressy about the responsibility of supporting the family etc? I know some men find that very hard and then just can't unwind. Will you get a chance to go away anywhere either by yourself or with the boys? Could you turn the time? If you went along are there any fun things you could be going out and doing?
After I found out about H's A, whenever he went away on business I used to get really wound up. Finally he ended up taking me with him because I would get so ill whilst he was away. After that he just delegated any away work - the stress was just too much. My heart really goes out to you.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
