I haven't posted because I am not sure what to say. Last night on his way home from work H called to see if he could pick me up a tea on the way home. Came in and was in a decent mood. Never mentioned the fact that he was so irate at me the previous night or anything about the incident with OW. Also never mentioned that he is supposedly moving out. The lawyer called just as I was setting dinner on the table and I asked if I could call back. They said no because I would get the switchboard but they would put me on the list for later in the night. H knew that they were supposed to be calling heard me tell the person I wanted to speak about a legal separation. When I got off the phone he asked who it was then acted suprised when I said it was the lawyer. During dinner I asked when they call back is this what you want, he kind of raised his eyebrows looked down at his plate and then said, I'll eat the rest of your chicken if you don't want it.

We are having a very bad snowstorm here. H left for work this morning and then called about an hour later(while I was still asleep) to tell me how bad the roads were and he was still trying to get to work but he would be leaving early I asked him if he was coming here? He acted suprised(this is the same person that thursday night said that he couldn't wait any longer for the lawyer to call and he was outta here). He then sent me a text a little bit ago to say that he would be home around 2 and he would call when he left the store to let me know he was on his way. And he calls me Jeckyll and Hyde???

I did set up a babysitter for tonight and was planning on going out I don;t think that will happen since we are supposed to get another couple of feet of snow. I am looking out at the driveway thinking of shovelling. I have never had to do that before. My H did very little around the house but he did shovel. Just things I am going to have to start getting used to.


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009