ok this helps me to understand the waw (in some cases) but still doesn't explain my once wah?? still trying to figure that one out...perhaps I was a borderline waw but knew better yet still pissed and moaned like a brat and h couldn't take it so went awol to yup you guessed it someone in the very same position as me but who was ignorant and became a waw anyway.
so let's see...I live in a very very nice brand new home...just like ow does...I stay home with my children just like ow does...h works hard to provide all this for me just like ow's h does...h is tired at the end of the day just like ow's h was (but her h still took her out to dinner go figure) I was lonely just like ow was...ow had people who came to her home and worked for her...well I do on occassion but not with the regularity that ow did...my h is the landscaper so it's just not like that...the oil delivery guy?? well he only comes once a month and less than that in the summer months when I would be outside...the mailman (well actually I think it's a woman) I can't even see my mailbox from the house...
so here goes...
I just had my house pressure washed..a nice attractive young guy came and cleaned the house...he was here for a good couple of hours...at times I watched him worked...heard him take phone calls and all I could think of was my h...
there's my h waking early going off to work..trying to get his jobs done..going from house to house wanting nothing more than to get it done and move on to the next house..being bombarded with phone calls from employees or other customers with their woes...this broke...we need a new this...when will you get to my house...bla bla bla...then there were the calls from me...who wanted him to be home...wa wa wa...what do you mean you wont be home til x...I thought you said you'd be home yada yada yada...I could picture this nice pleasant guy cleaning my house wanting nothing more than to finnish move onto the next to get home to his w and maybe child and hearing from her during the day wa wa wa where are you...when will you be home...bla bla bla....grrrrr....
anyway...I was nice and offered the guy a soda...said thank you we'll call you in the fall...he was happy and went on his merry way...
here's the difference between ow and I.
though I may be lonely at home alone with two little buggers..and it's nice to fantasize that the guy that just came to work on the house and smiled at you has the hots for you..I'd be dammed if I'd let him come to my house on a non-proffessional basis. but that is exactly what the ow did...
I don't know what the hell I'm saying here other than I feel pretty sorry for the ow...she's foolish, ignorant, selfish and in for a rude awakening..that pretty little house she has with her inground pool and hot tub..her proffessionally landscaped yard...her holiday parties..the luxury of staying at home...being there to hang with the landscapers and be home when her kids arive in from school...kiss it goodbye honey...you wont be living that way once your divorce goes through...
you say you'd rather be alone and lonely than with someone and lonely?? well hon you sure are going to be lonley for a long time then...you lost your bf when he came back to his wife...youre leaving your h selling your house...you will be a divorced mother of two with a terminal illness...how many men do you think you'll be getting attention from now???? but really I feel bad for you...you don't even realize how truly ignorant you are! LL
