I won't argue the other things you said Dom, I just don't know what to do to get it across to him what my needs are. The only way I know is to tell him and that doesn't seem to work, so give me suggestions. I don't know anymore.
What is the most dramatic, most extreme, most "I thought he'd get it this time!!" way you have tried to tell him about your needs so far?
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Anyway, if you have suggestions, let me know. I never did get into the Marriage Builder workbook b/c of his hours lately and b/c I just couldn't seem to get into the mood, to be honest, and he seems to be settled back into his comfortable ways again.
sounds like you have settled back into yours. I'm glad that things have "calmed down" between you. They could be so much better than that, though.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle