Hey T! I think its progress you are thinking about contacting him,well done you, I know this must be a bit daunting...
I agree with Lisa, I wouldnt send a postcard (not enough room to write anything meaningful?) and a card...well in the UK , cards are normally sent to people you are close to, for occasssions, like christmas or birthday or whatever. So maybe a letter...but like you say, theres no way of knowing where he is living now. And I would also definetly not send a gift. I cant see that that would be appropriate, but you know your BF best!
I reckon your instinct about an email is the right one, I wouldnt consider email too in-your-face, its pretty innocuous and not a pressure thing I dont think. Thinking of the old friend analogy, would you send a card or present out of the blue to a friend you havent spoken to for 6 months? Probably not, you would probably just whizz them an email, hey, how you doing?
But the wording...thats another story ! Have you had any thoughts about how you might word it? Were you still thinking of trying to see him at spring break, which is soonish isnt it?
As for him saying nasty things...I guess he'd still have to be angry about something to throw nasty words and I cant imagine that he would be angry at you, how could he be, you havent spoken to him! Plus, if he wasnt like that before, maybe hes unlikely to be now. Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Started reading Living in the Light.. Started with the Body section and have also just finished the Introduction.. I think I'm going to like this book. Thank you for the suggestion.
I also want to say that I think One Day (which I'd like to mention I've read your thread and love the use of the word "Pants" although I'm not sure anyone would understand what I mean in Canada.. and the sock discussions etc..) really knows you well and has offered some sound advice... It's nice that you have people that love you so much that they'll help move you toward your goal.. especially when you might need that little push!
(((T)))
W2G
PS. Just ate a banana chocolate chunk muffin.. and it was Grrreat!!!
Hope you have a nice time in San Francisco. I'm following what you are saying and along with the Lingerie I talked about on OD's thread, I'm also keeping up on the waxing. I think, it is just something that reminds me I'm a lady and to take care of myself!
T--I feel like you are power DB! All the stuff you are doing, I'm so proud of you! Truly and Inspiration!
Safe flight back...can't wait to hear how it went!
WHEN are you coming back? You know I've been in San Fransisco. I loved it. To me it was one of the cities (maybe the only one I've been to), that felt like Europe.
