DNQ, you appear to be on the right track. The past doesn't matter except to avoid repeating mistakes. Your posts support your comment that you have a need to be with your family and I pray that happens for you. Things sound so promising and I think that your W is making excellent steps toward a family reunited.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God