Punk she wants it and she doesn't want it. She doesnt know what to do so she is misinterpreting a D as her being in control. She is a very confused person.
I agree with Imageer. She will, more than likely, regret her decision later.
You already know that she was told by her friend that she is still in love with you. She cannot handle that so she is going to show fake strength by pursuing a D.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God