thanks CM, but I dont think they went into that verse far enough.

now I'm not sure what you took from that or what you were wanting me to see.

But I still take it the same way. That it was God's will for me to let my H go so that he could bring him back to me. Now in regards to the word "bondage" I cannot say that I have the understanding to say that Paul is saying it is okay to remarry or not if you were first M to an unbeliever and they left. And at the time of my sitch, I did feel that God had a husband waiting for me and I did not know if it was my H or someone else. But I did know that I needed to let my H go and give my problem to God. And letting go also does not mean I would plan to get M again to someone else. because Paul does say the Lord commands all M people to stay together and if one leaves then let them not marry but only reconcile to the original spouse.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."