By far, this is a better place to be emotionally. I arrived where you are some time ago and had the same euphoric notions of a new life as you are having. Your right to think of that future, because it can be what you are imagining.
Yes, there are many available Woman out there, Yes, there are many that are faithful and honest, and Yes, you can enjoy that companionship again.
However, and I hate to be the spoiler here, but there are issues after this point that start to take precedence over our own lives. That being the lives of our kids and the "new" arrangement between Mom and Dad that they have to adapt to. It's a new life for them to. This is what I am going through and dealing with right now. I'm struggling to form a workable relationship with the stbx. Trust me, she's as obnoxiously disrespectful and dishonest as yours. I would be interested to know if you are considering this new relationship with stbx at this point. I believe it's a important component of this whole dbing process.
I wish you all the luck!
Tom
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
