What am I willing to put up with? Good question. Deep down in my heart I know that we can fix things if we both approach the M in a positive manner. She obviously still cares deeply for me - said that's why she'd been back and forth so much.
So if I follow MWD, I be patient, a friend, and work on myself to show her a more attractive man to be with. If I follow Dobson, I give her an ultimatum, even though she's already chosen another over me. If I follow the advice on most of these threads, I wait and hope the fog lifts or the alien leaves.
I don't know. Right now all I can see is the disintegration of almost everything in my life. Still, I'll be okay no matter what happens. I just need to start planning for the worst now and make sure I take care of myself.
