Oh boy. Here I go, skyrocketing out of piecing in a big way.
W asked to come over and get some stuff. We ended up talking - I let her talk while I listened. She said she's actively looking for places to live and she's decided to try things with OM. During our conversation last sunday, I had said that most affairs don't last over 6 months, so she asked if we could talk again in 6 months. Talk about cake-eating! I said I couldn't answer that right now.
She said she felt terrible, that OM was advocating for her to be with me, and that she cared for me deeply but didn't understand why she didn't feel like being with me anymore (strangely, since she started affair). Also said that we should start separating our finances. I agreed and said we could cross bridges as we came to them, but we should take things day by day. I said I appreciated her honesty and hoped that we could continue being open - she said yes. I also said we were friends first and hoped we could continue on in that vein - she said she very much wanted that.
There it is. I'm really feeling pretty crappy right now. lodo
