Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

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MMF, at the moment I'm not worried about her getting angry. Because she wants to wait until the house is sold and closed, I don't anticipate having to have that conversation for about 6 months and who knows where we will be at that point.

You are right that it probably isnt over, even with the D. She is doing what she thinks she needs to. The OP could be pushing it but it can also be in her mind, part of the journey.

This is basically what I'm thinking too. I do get the impression that in her mind getting a D is just the next step. However, I also have a strong feeling that there is something else motivating her and it doesn't seem to be me.

I still firmly believe that no major progress will be made until OW is gone. Although, I do think that slow steady progress is already being made. I think that you are making steady progress too btw.