I don't think things are headed twards D on my W part.( maybe oon mine soon). But... there is no comitment yet.Kind of waiting a little to see if she gets a job soon. so I can't say we are Piecing. My question is. Whenever I bring up a good memory about something we did in the past W always say's " that was a long time ago". Not in a happy way. but in a "things have changed way"like saying "that was then this is now. My problem is she did not think this way when she slept with her XBF. THEY Cheated on his wife long before we were married. But That Long time ago memory is ok to her. This bothers me. We are just starting to communicate. I know bringing up the OM is a no no but In this isnstance do any of you think I should communicate how when she says that it bothers me. I know that if I said " Wife I want to just let ya know everytime I bring up a good past memory about us when you say "that was long ago" it makes me feel bad" I know her anser will be " well It was a long time ago things have changed. AND then I would probaly have a smart ass come back of " well you and XXXXX were together long ago and that did not stop you from seeing him agian...
I don't know it's just that I want to start expressing my feelings but I don't know if it is too soon... I know the remark about the Om will upset some of ya but that is how I feel..
MMC any sugjestions??
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
