Hey Dar! Oh dear, I thikn that was a language issue there, I wasnt meaning to be hard on yo, I was trying to empathise! Sorry you found the word "needy" hard, I guess its shorthand for the way you seem to be with him..and you did say you need to stop being edgy and angry all the time to help your D, so maybe you are a bit needy else you wouldnt still be so daily affected by huim? Of course you love him..but,whatever you have been doing isnt working, so you NEED to do something different...its says that in the DB book too, try somethng for 4- 6 weeks (?) and monitor results ad if its not working, try another tack. So, try NC !
Whats this thing abot talking at the weekend then? Was that his idea? Is that an R talk, not a talk about D? Becuase if so, that sounds promising? Are you prepared for it? Are you ready to be quiet, to listen, to validate, all that stuff? With my first meeting with my BF after NC I posted alot for advice as I didnt know how to behave and really took the advice to heart and it went well at the time (but sadly no R talk).
So whats the talk going to be about, do you know? And where? At your house?
