He continues to see her. I asked him to give up the relationship or give up the marriage. He told me he can be friends with whoever he wants.
There's my f***ing answer.
I can't believe the pain. My poor kids who did nothing wrong, will have to suffer. We'll have to move from our house, I'll have to go back to work full-time, and they will be from a broken home. They don't deserve this.
I hurt!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
hon, you can tell him 'til u are blue what to do, heck, my H lived w/me and sweared it was over, it never was. They have to come the realization themselves that the ow is wrong and detrimental to the M, dont' waste your breath on telling him to do this and that.
This is too painful, perhaps going dark will help you regroup and detach from his toxic behavior. My prayers your way.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
