The initial battle scene in "Cold Mountain" is based upon the real Battle of the Crater. I was not that impressed with the movie that much as it was a bit slow and boring.
I just watched a really good relationship movie that brought out some tears at a few spots, but otherwise, it was very enjoyable:
There is a nice gal in the movie that has a cheating H and she might give you some inspiration.
Pretty weird about the phone calls. If it was OW, what could she want to say? If OW does call, just tell her to not call you again and hang up on her. Unless she is going to be around your kids in the future, there is no reason for you to have to discuss anything with her.