Thanks everyone for the support about the new job. I havent posted much lately because nothing is happening in my situation.... no word from H, sometimes I miss him, sometimes not at all. Sometimes I would like our marriage to reconcile, sometimes I'd rather meet someone new. But to be honest I'm really not thinking about it.
So apart from that I have been working - and loving the new responsibilities and how occupied work is keeping me. So many new challenges. I was never really focused on my career - but I'm seizing the opportunity now that its fallen in my lap.
Started my belly dancing class this week. And have the sore stomach muscles and hips to prove it! It was so much fun!
I've also started going to a church and I'm trying to connect in with single girls my age to make some close friends (I moved countries 2 years ago, and it takes a while to build close friends). So I feel like I'm achieving my goals of having fun and meeting new people.
The real difference that I'm noticing is that I've become more interested in housework and cooking. Honestly for about 5 months I had done no housework (my mum was a bit shocked and came and did some over Xmas!) - I just was too interested in doing fun things and not wanting to be home and reminded of H. But since I've packed up all his personal stuff, I actually want to keep the house looking nice for me. I'm working towards cooking healthy meals for myself too - it has seemed too hard and too much of an effort. (I'm only thinking about it, still not really putting it into action!! Ha ha!)
So that's me.... no juicy gossip of H (but also no pain and tension).
