Hey Dar! I don't think I've posted to you before, although I do read your thread. I'll catch up and get more familiar over the weekend....

I really like your goals- have you got any ideas of what kind of exercise you might do? I've been learning to dance and am totally loving it!

I've also read in DR about setting small goals for the R, and then writing down the tiniest baby steps that would indicate a move towards the goal. Have you got any of those?

Originally Posted By: darboyd5
I don't know why I won't let myself try something different just because I'm a bit uncomfy about it.

I did send him an email apologizing for my behavior and he replied right back saying "don't worry about it at all. we'll talk this weekend".


It's great that H replied straight away and acknowledged the apology- really good! I wanted to quote the first part of this post though, and I am probably going to sound cliched here, but Dar, if you do the same thing you've always done, you'll get what you've always got. You want something different right? So decide, for yourself, that you will. That's all it takes- view yourself as the kind of brave person who will do whatever it takes to save their M. And do whatever it takes, even if it's a bit different and scary.


Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart.
And you'll never walk alone.