Originally Posted By: klm
Do either of you still wear your wedding rings? H and I don't...but I would really like to start wearing mine again. I wouldn't expect him to if he wasn't ready. I don't think I can just put mine back on without discussing it with him. Just wondering if you have dealt with this and if so...how?


No, we don't either. I took mine off the day he moved out. That was MUCH sooner than I would've ever imagined, but in some way, it was the first step I felt I had to take to detach from the whole mess.

I think about discussing it with my H, too, but then I'm not sure how to approach the subject. I wonder if I should wait for him to make the first move???


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell