Everything over here still appears to be going well. H stayed over last night for the 3rd time in a row, so that indeed is a plus!
That is great!! This is definitely a step in the right direction.
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Something that concerns me though. H has been bringing a few beers with him every night since he's been here. He pounds them after dinner and then passes out on the couch while we watch TV or a movie.
Does he act different when he drinks? If he just has a couple to relax...in my opinion....it is not that big of a deal. My H does this, but it doesn't really affect his mood (sometimes even puts him in a better one because he is able to let go). When we first married it really bothered me, I think because I just didn't like the idea of him drinking every day. However, now I realize it really is his way to relax and he doesn't get drunk...just a few beers. It doesn't really bother me anymore. Now, if he was mean or abusive or drunk..that would be different. Just my opinion.
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Before he left for work this morning, he leaned over me in bed to give me a hug. He asked, "Do you like me being here?" I said, "Of course! The boys like having you here, too." Almost as if he was unsure about it, H said ok, have a good day, then left.
He probably just needs to be reassured that you want him there. I think my H has a huge fear of rejection right now because he doesn't feel he deserves another chance with me.
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Ok, H just called. We're going to the game!
This is great!!!! I hope you both have a great time. Let us know how it goes.
