Worried I found DB too late

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Hi, I too am very worried I started DBing much too late. I've been in the newcomers area for several months, did make some progress, but I seem to have hit a speed bump there. Have been separated 9 months and D was filed over a year ago. I'm still hoping to save the M but I'm starting to panic/despair almost as much as I did a year ago because I realize so much time has gone by and my big ship (M/R) is still not turning around. Do I belong more here than in newcomers? Any suggestions on what I need to be doing differently? Thanks and sorry for butting in.