Tipper you can do this....just try to take care of yourself and not worry so much about him...he is going to have to fix himself BEFORE he even tries to work on your marriage....

Please listen to everyone here. My H has gone back and forth about 10 times in the past 15 months. It is horrible to go through so many times. I really wish I hadnt let him back after the 2nd time he left....each time he has come and gone he has taken more from my heart to where my love isnt as strong for him as it was in the beginning.

Be careful and just try your best not to worry about him. There is nothing you can do for him, only you.

Take care. You can always have hope....I do, even though my sitch looks hopeless now. I am finally now to the point I can move forward and not worry about his thoughts and going ons.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10