Checking on you too! I'm in the middle of my H having an affair too! It started only 2 months ago and after 3 weeks I couldn't hide that I knew it....I called him on it right away. His response was..."are you really surprised" I don't even know what I said...because yes I was. We had serious problems and I had been emotionally withdrawn from him for months and even was staying out of the house at a friends (no affair on my end..I was just lost in the fact that I had no feelings and it took me five months to find my way back)
So I guess he thought I shouldnt be surprised because of that i guess. Almost like he had a right to be with someone else. Um NO we are still married.
So I feel your pain and I am here for you to vent and ask advise. You are not alone my dear! And you will get through this with all our help.
M 37 H 37 Married 2yrs (together 7yrs) Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on
