Yep, those would all be big turnoffs to me too. Especially the married women part. That does not jive with my way of thinking. Nope, especially after being cheated on.
I can tell you that I really don't believe there is a perfect guy out there but there are many great ones! Finding them isn't easy but it's worth it. I have a kind of list of deal breakers that I used with the guys I dated. For one thing - I couldn't take a smoker, nor one who was too soon out of a R, nor one who was condescending. I'd want to know how the M ended. If he cheated - no way I'd date him.
Too much familiarity with that guy and too soon, don't you think? I can't believe he tought it was ok to fart loud right in front of you! GROSS!
Now that Florida is over I am getting more excited about Chicago. Hope the snow is gone by then.
