I'm sure you already know this, but all that "NOW you've done it! This is all your fault now!" stuff is ENTIRELY SCRIPT for a wayward spouse in an active affair to say. They will do everything, even re-write your marital history, just to make it all your fault.
I've noticed this more and more lately, at first it wasn't about me he was just a screw up, now its for 12 years I've been telling you this....
He did text me at lunch time to say I am sorry about this morning.
I just got a call from a friend and the EAP counsellor at work saying that she knows that I want to keep what is going on private but as a heads up she has been approached by a couple coworkers(and friends) asking if I am ill since I have been so down(cause I am normally a perky girl) and that I am so thin.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009