SPM - Sorry to hear the news of the quick court decision. Hopefully, the evaluation will be much better.

You should try to get a hold of RTL when he is in Seattle - I assume you live in that area. You both have a somewhat similar legal situation and you might get some more good input from him regarding how to act in the parenting evaluation. I really feel for both of you guys as when my situation started I was most worried about getting the shaft in regards to parenting time. I feel fortunate to have my kids half the time and I think you should too - it is what is in their best interest.