Hi there Going Foward. I'm new here and you have actually posted a couple of times on my thread.."my husband is having an affair". So first I should say thank you for your support!

Secondly, your story although long and must have so tough on you is one that I find encouraging.

I am happy that your H is staying with you and your children. You are at the beginning of what may be the start of a new M. You do need to D the old one in theory and I think this journey for the two of you will take alot of hard work, but I am happy for you!

I hope you have a great dinner and enjoy a wonderful evening together. Keep only positive thoughts...focus on what is working.....I am cheering for you and look forward to hearing continued success in your new M.

M 37
H 37
Married 2yrs (together 7yrs)
Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old
H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW
Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on