I think we try to rush the work because we are an instant gratification sort of society
I mean...we can say we are doing the work and we are reading the books but it doesn't matter if the whole time we are doing that we are setting ourselves on a sort of timeline...
like i did the therapy thing (check) went to the gym (check) did NC for aweek (check)
it happens in its own timeline and pushing it to move faster just won't work
