Mako that is messed up 'ma man! I don't think her counselor should be discussing intimate relationship issues with your W...let alone with you IN FRONT OF HER!! That is so unprofessional IMO...plus, putting you on the spot like that was totally uncalled for. Counselors should not direct ANYBODY to make any decisions one way or the other...I do understand their position to support a decision their clients make...but to force decisions like that....just wrong.
Which is why, many sponsors say "Do not make any life changing/altering decisions while in recovery." This is the very reason why. Many people are very unstable and unsure during this time...it is a very difficult/confusing/scary time in an addict's (and their family's) lives. I'm glad you didn't get backed up against the wall dude...you did the right thing. You children's welfare is first and foremost....undoubtedly.
