Hey Mark, I am new here. Just started posting only 1 month ago. I have read this current thread and must admit that it is hard to hear what some are saying about DBing actually not helping them in their M, as I am still in the early stages and hoping this may work.

You do sound like a catch and I am proud that you have been able to gain confidence through this journey you have taken and I too feel that everyone on these forums have and continue to help us. It's actually been overwhelming the support you get here and much needed for me and it has seemingly offered you the same.

Only you know when you are done and it sounds as if you are there. Everything happens for a reason, I believe this deeply and you will look back some day and thank god for some of your unanswered prayers you may have made.

I feel that good things are on the horizon for you. We are what we project and what we project is who we attract!

Be happy and true to you!!!!!

Congratulations on finding your way through this!

M 37
H 37
Married 2yrs (together 7yrs)
Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old
H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW
Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on