Sorry that I may have been ignoring your sitch I am a bad dog. So even though you have not asked me specifically here are my me thinks for you.
You are in the exact same spot as I was in December!!!! Really similar. So she came on to me and I went with it and we had sex which was great I knew to expect that she would pull back or even worse and she did. But the effect of the physical contact was the tide that turned the sitch. She kept throwing me back out of the house and kept telling me that I should not get the wrong idea, but she was making all the moves and I was doing nothing.
It was classic don't believe what she says and not read into anything she does. I just enjoyed the physical contact. Of course it killed me when she told me it was just sex and we were not getting back together, but in the end I could tell that she was opening up to me even though we were seperated and she was sending me out of the house every chance she got.
Me thinks that you let her lead in every situation you are in this weekend. If she wants to be kissy kissy the do it, if she pulls back or cuts it off no biggie just pretend you're in high school again! If she wants to roll around, go for it. Don't make anything complicated... just keep it simple.
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
