W has been talking to our agent, looks like switching to another mortgage provider will save us around 1% over our current one... sounds good. Also that transferring the property over to just me can only happen once we have the divorce papers done. The better news is that there is no real capital value increase, so no payout needed for that. Last of the car payments was this month too, so will make things a little less financially stressed.
Today W again is saying she wants to buy a new single bed etc so she can move into the study/extra room, apparently sleeping in the same bed is "confusing". Don't know if its supposed to be confusing me or her, or if it just bothers her to be sleeping in the same bed as me while having her affairs?
Won't be seeing much of W this w/e, she is off to the movies tonight so I don't expect she will be back until really late/early and tomorrow she is visiting her friend and staying over... I don't think I'm too paranoid when I think she is off with one of her boyfriends, hence the current push to be apart.
Still looks like we'll be living together until August though, will be a long and bumpy ride until then. Feel sorry for S5 who will have mommy move out just before his birthday. Also going to have W getting all ratty about starting work and how hard it is again... Part of me wants to shake her and make her understand that it is NORMAL to be tired and have no time if you work a full time job!!!
Hard day today, weekend should be quiet though without W around. Not looking forward to monday and the mediator.
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"
