Originally Posted By: Chevelle
I will have to check them out..it just seems so difficult at times to move on...she hasnt even mentioned D in months, so I dont know why...if she doesnt want me anymore, why dont I have papers in my hand?

I guess only God knows the answers....

God bless

Chevelle


Chevelle,

I know how very hard it is at this time.... The problem is those of us who really believe in love and marriage... We have difficulty just jumping from one person to another... I know this is a positive characteristic... Yet, at this time, it feels like a curse....

There are so many questions.... I asked myself a plethora of questions over and over.... That never really helped.... It drove me crazy... I very slowly learned to release it into God's hands....

I know I am treading on thin ice by guessing about sitch... But, I will... Based on her actions, I honestly think your W does not want to D you.... I do not know if deep down inside she still really loves you or she wants you as a security blanket... God only knows that....

This puts you in a tough position.... Do you simply get on with your life, be legally married and leave it in God's hands? Do you put your stones on the line, tell her how much you love her, tell her you want to work on your M and if she does not you are going to file for D?

I would continue to pray and ask God for clear guidance. If you do not feel you have peace about which way to go, I would encourage you to continue to pray until you do.

No_More_Dodo


"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret