Update to my sitch, the end has come

[mako_man]

Yes, LOTS of choices to make. I actually received a call from her counselor at the rehab yesterday (wife was in the room as well). It was presented to me by the counselor that I need to be supportive if she goes to this halfway house for 6 mos to a year. And she asked me point blank "do you still intend to fight for full custody while she is in there?" and told me "This could seriously derail her recovery efforts." [censored], I thought that was kind of unprofessional, and its not like I need any more pressure.