Being from Colorado I can appreciate the cathartic effects that being on the mountain can have in any situation. There have been many times in my life that just being on the mountain looking down on the bumps and the town below just erased all my fears and problems...for a little while.

I think this process sucks for all of us the unknown is always uneasy. Me thinks you are doing exactly the right thing, don't fret too much about W for the time you are away there wouldn't be much you could do anyhow.

Not sure where you are but spend a few hours at Barkley's in Frisco get the cheeseburger couple it with a few Fat Tire's and soak in the peace that you can create by just being. Who knows what direction your R is going, and for today it does not really matter.

Fat Tire will cure what ails you my friend.

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce