I agree with Woog. Nothing you do or have done in the past explains HIS actions. Therefore, I would like to suggest that you go pitch dark.....not to save your M but to save yourself (overly dramatic). I like the idea of getting away but don't agree on the alone part. It is imperative that you surround yourself with good people this weekend and avoid any H talk if at all possible. Use this forum for your relationship talk/husband bashing etc.......
